No parent is ready for their daughter to start dating, but when the time comes you want to be prepared! Here are 10 questions to ask your daughter's boyfriend before he takes her out on a first date. Once the interrogation is over, be sure to get his full name so you can run a background check on InstantCheckmate.com!
15. “Where do you see
yourself in 5 years?”
This popular
interview question
will probably be
unexpected, so he’ll
give a candid answer.
Maybe the tattooed
bad boy has goals of
going to med school?
17. “What are your
parents like?”
Your upbringing
impacts who you
become later in life,
and learning a bit
about his family
may show you that
he has overcome a
lot in his life.
18. “What are your
parents like?”
OR if he’s tight-
lipped about his
home life, there
may be
something in his
past that you
need to know.
20. “What’s the
craziest thing
you’ve ever done?”
If he has an
innocent, slightly
embarrassing story
that reminds you of
your own teen years,
he passed the test.
21. “What’s the
craziest thing
you’ve ever done?”
If he goes into detail
about the time he
earned a spot on the
sex offender registry
or “his friend” got
him arrested for
grand theft?
24. “Do your parents
have any dating rules
we should know?”
You have your own
rules regarding
curfew and what
your daughter is or
isn’t allowed to do,
but his parents may
be more lenient.
25. No pre-date grill-
session would be
complete without
the old classic:
“What are your
plans for this date?”
26. Get all the details.
Where is he
planning to take
her? Who else will
be there? When
will they get back?
Set a firm curfew.
“What are your
plans for this date?”
27. Before you let them leave,
get all of his information.
• Full name
• Address
• Cell phone number
• The names and phone
number(s) of his parents.
28. Before you let them leave,
get all of his information.
It might seem overbearing and it will
probably embarrass your daughter, but
ask yourself this question:
29. Before you let them leave,
get all of his information.
If your daughter didn’t return from her date,
wouldn’t you want to be able to give the police
as much info as possible?
30. Before you let them leave,
get all of his information.
If you have any suspicions about the guy at all,
now you can make sure he’s telling the truth
with a quick background check.
31. • Verify the information he told you is correct.
• Check his traffic record to see if he’s a safe driver.
• Make sure he isn’t hiding a violent or dangerous
background.
• See if he has any known associates or family
members that are into anything unsavory.
A background check on
InstantCheckmate.com allows you to: